Polygamy in Islam: The Amount of Miseducation that surrounds the subject of polygamy in Islam is simply criminal

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BismiLLAH AlhamduliLLAH 


Polygamy Ijmaʿa: Why I Wrote This Book

I wrote “Polygamy Ijmaʿa”, a digital book published on Google Docs for FREE because the amount of miseducation on polygamy in Islam is criminal.

This is a book that fills a gap in Islamic literature.

If you read it, you’ll learn things you’ve never heard about polygamy in Islam.

For example:

In Al-Mughnī, Volume 9, page 483, all of the Companions of the Prophet ﷺ agreed that a Muslim woman can decide NOT to be in polygamy.

The False Narrative Around Polygamy

Polygamy is usually presented in Islam as something that a woman has no choice about.

In fact, it is presented as a VIRTUE.

Men are portrayed as beings who are incapable of controlling their sexual desires without polygamy.

THESE ARE ALL LIES.

There is NO evidence in Islamic literature that connects male sexual desire with polygamy AT ALL.

In fact, polygamy was made permissible for only one reason, and that reason is documented several times in Sahih al-Bukhari and in Sahih Muslim — you will find it ONLY ONCE. Yet polygamy has been falsely presented as something legislated for men's sexual desire.

There's literally no evidence for this lie that's been peddled with boldness.

Why I Made the Book Free

I wrote “Polygamy Ijmaʿa” and made it available for FREE as a digital book because someone MUST revive the truth.

Women have literally died.
Women have gone insane from being FORCED into polygamy.

For far too long, they have been brainwashed into believing that polygamy is something they must COPE with.

I hate that word — cope.

It is satanic.
It is against ALLAH.

Marriage in Islam Is Not Meant to Be Endured

Almighty ALLAH legislated marriage for Mawaddah and Raḥmah — love and tranquility.

Where did the Owner of the world ever say marriage should be coped with?

Let women who can live happily in polygamy CHOOSE polygamy.

As for women who don’t want polygamy, let it be known that they can decide NOT to be in it.

The Prophet ﷺ, His Daughters, and Monogamy

NONE of the daughters of the Prophet ﷺ practiced polygamy.

The Prophet ﷺ praised Abū al-ʿĀṣ, the husband of his first daughter, for promising MONOGAMY-ONLY and sticking to that promise.

All of his daughters:

  • Married as the first and ONLY wife
  • Had all proposals from MARRIED men rejected

Prophetic Polygamy Was a Duty — Not a Choice

The polygamy of the Prophet ﷺ was something HE practiced because HE MUST.

It was a Prophetic duty.

Just like the polygamy of Prophet Ibrāhīm (ʿalayhi as-salām) was a Prophetic duty that established the city of Makkah through Hājar and Ismāʿīl.

The Prophet ﷺ didn’t decide polygamy.

HE and his family members were chosen.

In every ṣalāh, five times a day, we salute him and his family.

Again:
The polygamy of the Prophet ﷺ is ḥarām for every man.

He married nine to establish the religion of ALLAH.

Divine Commands in the Prophet’s Marriages

Verses came down commanding him ﷺ to marry Zaynab bint Jaḥsh, even though he didn’t want to.

He was commanded not to divorce Ḥafṣah when He passionately wanted to.

He was commanded to marry ʿĀʾishah several times before He followed the command.

Mother ʿĀʾishah broke off her engagement with Jubayr ibn Mut'im, the Prophet ﷺ proposed through Khawlah Bint al-Hakeem — and Mother Aisha accepted.

The Prophet ﷺ was:

  • Monogamous for the entirety of his youth
  • Monogamous for the first ten years of his prophethood
  • Polygamous only in the last nine years of his life

He ﷺ was commanded to marry each wife.
It was not something he decided.

Polygamy Is Not a Virtue

Today, women are being brainwashed into polygamy in the name of virtue.

If someone can bring evidence that connects polygamy with virtue in Islam,
I’ll give both of my eyes, legs, and kidneys.

This is a blatant lie, being peddled even at extremely high levels of Islamic authority.

Women are being forced to cope with something they are allowed to decide about.

Choice Exists Elsewhere — Why Not Here?

A Christian woman can decide NOT to marry a Muslim man — even though a Muslim man is allowed to marry her.

Similarly, a Muslim woman can decide NOT to be in polygamy — even though a Muslim man is allowed to practice it.

Ijmaʿ: The Highest Legal Proof

According to the Ijmaʿ (consensus) of the Companions of the Prophet ﷺ in Al-Mughnī, Volume 9, page 483:

A Muslim woman can stipulate a no-polygamy condition in her marriage contract.

Ijmaʿ is the highest source of law in Islam after the Qur’an and Sunnah.

According to the Prophet ﷺ, Almighty ALLAH has made it IMPOSSIBLE for His Ummah to agree upon falsehood.

He ﷺ personally taught over 100 Companions ijtihād (the science of deriving laws from the Qur'an and Sunnah).

There is NO WAY that:

  • ʿUmar ibn al-Khaṭṭāb
  • ʿAmr ibn al-ʿĀṣ
  • Muʿāwiyah

and the rest of them would agree that a woman can stipulate no polygamy if she couldn’t.

They practiced polygamy — and still agreed that a woman can DECIDE NOT to be in it.

They married Christian women — and still agreed that a Christian woman can DECIDE NOT to marry them.

So Why Is This Knowledge Lost?

Why have we lost this knowledge today?

Why are believing women being brainwashed into polygamy?

Why?

What the Book Offers

I wrote an A–Z, step-by-step process that a believing woman can follow to stop polygamy from entering her life Islamically.

It is all about stipulating MONOGAMY-ONLY (no polygamy) in her marriage contract.

You will read loads of satisfactory evidences in my FREE digital book published on Google Docs.

📖 Simply click and read:
👉 about.me/HamidahAbbas

It is unbelievable that no one has decided to write a book that makes the truth clear about polygamy in Islam.

This is me filling the gap in literature — not because I want to, but because I have to.

Women have literally gone insane from being forced into polygamy.

This is NOT a joke.

Closing

I am Hamidah.
I am an author.

And may the peace of ALLAH be upon you:

  • the day you were born,
  • the day you will die,
  • and the day you will be raised.

Sincerely,

Your sister in Islam,
Hamidah

Author of Polygamy Ijma’a (free)

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