Why I call Myselt an Artist BismiLLAH AlhamduliLLAH I am Hamidah Abbas , an Islamic thinker. I completed the Muslim Intellectual Development Program (Sharī'ah Intelligence Training) on 17 June 2026 . The five-day training was held at Bayseone Hall, opposite the NASFAT praying ground, Samonda, Ibadan, Oyo State. It was organised by the Da'wah Institute of Nigeria, Islamic Education Trust (IET), Minna, in collaboration with the Muslim Ummah of South West Nigeria (MUSWEN). As a thinker, I have many interests and areas of research. However, my core area of interest is gender and polygamy in Islam . A simple way to summarise everything I do is: Spreading light. Whether it is “music”, salvation, agriculture, gender and polygamy in Islam, or society, my objective has always been to make things a little brighter than they were before. For me, it has always been light over darkness . I am from Ìbàdàn, Oyo State, Nigeria . I hold a Bachelor of Agriculture degree from the Fed...
Female Fatigue (A Brilliant Thought from Ad on Threads)
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BismiLLAH AlhamduliLLAH
Female Fatigue
"There is a very specific female fatigue that comes from knowing exactly what is happening, explaining exactly what is happening, being told you are overreacting, and then watching exactly what is happening happen with excellent punctuality." — ad_fonso
I saw this beautiful thought on Threads today as I was busy consuming the pages of social media. I thought, what a beautifully written wonder. So here I am, sharing it—or let's say saving it—so that I can come and take a look at it sometime in the future.
I mean, what a waste it would be if I never saw these words ever again.
I swear by ALLAH, I love words. And certainly, ALLAH is the Best of Speakers.
Sincerely,
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